There are two certainties with the concept of desire: Everyone wants to be both its recipient and its donor. Whether you are seeking an employee or a life-partner, research shows …
Author: Chardyce Kott
Common Cognitive Distortions and How to Reframe
One of the main contributors to emotional dysregulation is cognitive distortions. Cognitive distortions are irrational thoughts that we experience surrounding a specific event, situation, or as a learned response. Cognitive …
Regrets: The Top 5 and How to Die Without Them
Here’s a game I like to play: Whenever I am struggling to make a difficult decision, allowing fear to prevent me from moving forward, or feeling generally dissatisfied with how …
How to Create Healthy Boundaries
What are boundaries? When you hear the word boundary, what comes to mind? Maybe it is the literal definition from the Oxford Dictionary, “a line that marks the limits of …
Lies From Your Ego
Those parts of yourself that you show to the outside world, those parts that make up “the mask” you wear that’s your ego. It is the driver of your greatest …
How to Start Taking Time for Yourself
Think for a moment about the last time that you rested or took a second to check in with yourself. Resting or practicing self-care may be a message that is …
To Tell or Not to Tell
Do you consider yourself an honest person? Is there something you are currently hiding? At any given moment, the average person is mentally guarding 13 secrets. A person will tell …
Ways To Help You Achieve Better Communication
Have you ever felt like you were sharing with someone, and they were hearing you but not actually listening? Maybe you feel like conversations are an uphill battle that will …
5 Habits That Are Destroying Your Mental Health
Modern society, particularly a modern society in the midst of a pandemic, can be an enemy for those who struggle with mental illness. Our lifestyles are often a direct reflection …
What You Say To Yourself Matters
Take a moment to visualize or think about what you might say to yourself throughout the day. Are you self-critical or make judgments about yourself? It is often easy to …